My voice

I am 24 years old... I am married .my husband want  money .though he is living a very good life he is earning 10 lakhs pr year. I am spose to take care of my child , my husband , his parents , his relatives.

But who will take of me. Mai kahan hu isme .where I am.when I am not earning then how will I make them  learn that how to earn?? I have to give my whole life to my husband my kids and everyone there, cooking meals , washing clothes.. Do we donot have right to earn and get an identity ...who am I ?? Am mrs so and so ...why i have to leave my parents name ..and change my religion , my thoughts , my identity for one man.Why cant he accept me with my original identity ...with my original surname ... Life is not about what actually is being given to u its about how you change it.No one can help you , untill u yourself donot have that audacity to change it on our own...To all the girls , woman out there take a stand , have a identity no one is gona through you out of the house  if you will work and earn...you will definetely enjoy it!!! ... Trust me ... U donot have to work all day at home ...invest your energy in job...go apply and search for it...toh kya hogya agar apke husband bahut acha kamate hai... But aap toh kuch nh kamate na....marriage is not about devoting your own thoughts , life and everything to tht one man..grow up and have your own personal life .... 

Signing off 

Jai hind ...

FOLLOW YOUR HEART

Dear readers,

Why  in India people only want to became engineer , doctors .Why not we follow our heart...why our parents don't support us ??????????
Because I think they want us to see as a person who is following the society ...SHArma ji k ladke ne engineering ki...hai aj woh foreign mai hai....tu toh nalayak hi rahega hamesha .... Tu bhi engineer banega .
While this child wanted to became a cricketer but he is not allowed to...to follow his dream...he don't want to feel himself as a flock of sheep...
People open your eyes and follow your heart ...i know it might take time...it will be against your parenrs ..your so called relatives ... (the people who always and will point fingers at u and show us that their children are superior than us in every way despite the fact that there childern donot respect their parents ....) ..thy don't look inside their own houses...first
So indian citizen follow ur heart bcz ...dil kabhi jhut nh bolta .....
Signing off
Your loving
A proud indian
Jai hind jai bharat ....